Kuzvishongedza kwako kwapera, bvudzi rako rabatwa zvakanaka, jira rako remapeji rinokwana zvakanaka uye kunyemwerera kwako kwakanyatsojeka. Kunyangwe kusviba kwako ndiko kunoreva kutsvodwa nezuro… wagadzirira kusvika padanho iroro zvakanyanya zvekuti wasara wakavhiringidzika. Zvino kwauya chikamu chemibvunzo nemhinduro chemutambo.
Ino ndiyo nguva yako. Fungidzira uye uzvitore semunhu wako.
Wagadzirira here kupindura mubvunzo uyu nechivimbo chakawanda zvekuti mugadziri weHollywood angakuona semusikana weBond anotevera? Zvakanaka. Kana zvisina kudaro, tinogona kukubatsira.
Saka chii chinotevera? Ndeipi mibvunzo inowanzo bvunzwa nezvemakwikwi erunako uye unofanira kuipindura sei?
Kwemakore anopfuura makumi maviri, The Sash Company yanga ichigadzira machira emhando yepamusoro emakwikwi erunako evakwikwidzi muUS yese. Isu tiri vadyidzani vepamutemo veMiss America neMiss Universe. Tinogadzira machira emhando yepamusoro anosiya pfungwa.
Taona makwikwi edu akawanda panguva iyoyo, uye tichifunga izvozvo, tinoda kupa ruzivo rwedu. Ndeipi mibvunzo inowanzo bvunzwa pamakwikwi erunako uye unofanira kuipindura sei? Ramba uchidzidza mamwe matipi uye matekiniki ekuita kuti unzwe uine chivimbo pakupindura mibvunzo yemakwikwi.
Mibvunzo neMhinduro Dzakajairika
1 - "Tiudze nezvako"
Aa, mibvunzo inowanzo bvunzwa nevakwikwidzi pamakwikwi erunako. Zviri nyore, zvakajairika, uye zvinoshandiswa zvakanyanya. Mukana wekuvhura nhandare nenzira inonakidza uye inonakidza.
Mhinduro ngaive yakapfava uye yakapfupika. Edza kuiona senzira yekukukwidza. Hazvifanirwe kudarika masekondi makumi maviri uye zvinofanira kuratidza hunhu hwako. Iyi ipfupiso yehupenyu hwako pa Instagram.
Vatongi vari kutsvaga zvinhu zvinotevera:
- Basa renharaunda
- Kutaura pachena
- Hunhu hwemunhu
- Kukwaniswa
Nzira yekupindura mubvunzo uyu ndeyekusarudza zvinhu zvishanu kana zvitanhatu zvaunoita zvaunodada nazvo, uye zvinoratidza kuti uri munhu akaita sei. Ita kuti zviite sekuti uri wega.
"Pfungwa dzako dzakaita semugodhi wegoridhe, kana ukachera zvakadzika uchawana chimwe chinhu chegoridhe." — Gift Gugu Mona
2 - "Sei uchifanira kukunda?" / "Sei vatongi vachifanira kukusarudza?"
Zvakanaka, maita basa nemibvunzo inonetsa. Zvakaoma kuzviratidza uine chivimbo uye uchizvininipisa paunenge uchiudza vanhu kuti sei uri iwe sarudzo yakanakisisa. Ndosaka iyi iriwo imwe yemibvunzo inowanzo bvunzwa pamakwikwi erunako gore rega rega.
Uye iwe unogona kuita izvi zvakare.
Nzira yekupindura mubvunzo uyu ndeyekuva akatendeseka uye wechokwadi. Usangoshandisa makwikwi erunako ekuva muenzaniso kana kushandura nyika, kunze kwekunge ndizvo zvaunotenda zvechokwadi ... uye kana zvakadaro, saka unofanira kuzvitaura zviri nani pane izvozvo.
Funga nezvedzimwe pfungwa idzi dzekutaura paunogara pasi kuti ufunge nezvemhinduro yako:
- Taura nezvezvirongwa zvako zveramangwana uye kuti mutambo uyu uchakubatsira sei kuzadzisa zvinangwa izvozvo.
- Taura nezvezvaunounza kumakwikwi, uye zvinokuita kuti usiyane nevamwe vanokunda.
- Taura nezvehutungamiriri uye hunhu hwaunofunga kuti vanokunda mumakwikwi vane, wobva wahubatanidza nehunhu hwako.
Chinhu chinonyanya kukosha chaunogona kuita kutyora maitiro acho. Usatevedzera vamwe vari kukwikwidza. Pane kudaro, taura mhinduro dzavo wochinja nzira. "Ndinoziva kuti vamwe vese vangangopindura mubvunzo uyu zvakasiyana asi…."
"Kukunda hazvirevi kuti unofanira kuva wekutanga nguva dzose. Kukunda zvinoreva kuti uri kuita zviri nani kupfuura zvawakaita kare." - Bonnie Blair
3 - "Tsanangura hunhu hwevakadzi" / "Basa revakadzi vemazuva ano munharaunda" / "Zano revakadzi vechidiki nhasi uno"
Kune mhando dzakasiyana dzemubvunzo uyu mumakwikwi erunako muUnited States gore rega rega. Vatongi vanoda kuziva mafungiro nemanzwiro emukwikwidzi nezvehunhu hwechikadzi nekuva mukadzi munharaunda yemazuva ano.
Hapana mhinduro imwe chete inokwana vese pamubvunzo uyu, asi tinogona kupa mamwe mazano.
- Tarisa parwendo rwako semukadzi, uye zvawakadzidza.
- Zvibvunze kuti ndehupi hunhu hwaunoyemura mune vamwe vakadzi hwaunoda kuti dai uine zvakawanda.
- Taura nezvevakadzi vari kutora nzvimbo dzavo munyika.
- Putsai maitiro acho, musapindura sevamwe vakwikwidzi.
Vatongi vangangoda kunzwa zvakawanda nezvesimba, chivimbo, kunzwiwa, uye hutungamiriri.
"Kune nzvimbo yakakosha mugehena yevakadzi vasingabatsire vamwe vakadzi." - Madeleine Albright
4 - “Ndeipi chiitiko chauri kutarisa pachiri?” / “Ndezvipi zvaunofunga nezve [isa chiitiko chazvino pano]?”
Uri kutevera nhau here uye uri kugara uchiziva zviri kuitika pasi rose, kana kuti munharaunda yako here?
Kana uchizomiririra nharaunda, unofanira kuziva zviri kuitika uye chinonyanya kukosha, unofanira kuva nemhinduro.
Heano zvimwe zvinhu zvekuramba uchifunga nezvazvo pakupindura mubvunzo uyu unowanzo bvunzwa:
- Putsai maitiro mopindura nezvechiitiko chakakosha kwamuri. Musapindure nechiitiko chimwe chete chataurwa nevamwe vese vari kukwikwidza.
- Pane nzira here yekubatanidza mhinduro yako nezvakaitika kwauri? Chenjerera kuti usazvidza chiitiko chacho, asi edza kuwedzera maonero ako.
- Pakupedzisira, kubatana kwevanhu nerugare ndizvo zvinonyanya kukosheswa pane chero chiitiko. Unganidza vanhu pamwe chete. Funga izvi paunenge uchipindura.
- Edza nepaunogona napo kuti ugare uine ruzivo nezvezviitiko zviri kuitika kuburikidza nenhau, mapodcasts, uye zvinyorwa pamawebhusaiti akaita se substack!
"Mashoko akanaka haawanzo kuwanikwa mazuva ano, uye chinhu chose chinopenya chayo chinofanira kukosheswa, kuchengetwa, kunamatwa uye kubatwa-batwa sedhaimani risingakoshi." - Hunter S. Thompson
5 - "Chii chinokuita iwe, iwe?" / "Tiudze chimwe chinhu chinonakidza nezvako"
Uyu ndiwo mubvunzo unowanzo bvunzwa nezvemakwikwi erunako nekuti wakavhurika, wakadzikama, uye uzere nemikana. Mubvunzo uyu unogona kumutsa kana kuputsa mukwikwidzi. Ndiwo mukana wako wekubhururuka kana kudonha, kupenya kana kudonha, kupa munhu wese mukana wekuziva munhu ari kumashure kwejasi.
Mubvunzo chaiwo uri pasi pezvose ndeuyu: ndeupi hunhu hwakasiyana hwaungauya nahwo semukundi wemakwikwi uye muridzi wechikwata?
Ehe unogona kutaura nezvezvinhu zvaunofarira, zvakaitika paudiki, uye maonero ako pahupenyu, asi pakupedzisira mhinduro yako inofanira kunge ine chido. Tarisa pane ramangwana mumhinduro iyi kwete zvakapfuura chete. Usadzoke shure, tarisa mberi!
"Iva iwe pachako; vamwe vese vatotorwa." - Oscar Wilde
6 - "Ndeipi nhamo yako huru?"
Zvakanaka, mumwe mubvunzo wemanomano handiti? Pamwe kwete. Chinangwa chemubvunzo uyu hachisi chekukunyengedza, kana kuti kutsvaga kuti chii chaunonyanya kutadza, chinangwa chemubvunzo uyu ndechekuona kana uchizviziva uye kana uchitenda mauri uye kugona kwako kuvandudza.
Hazvina basa kuti utera hwako hukuru chii, zvakakosha kana uri munhu akatendeseka uye kana uchinyatsonzwisisa iwe pachako.
Chero mhinduro yako, iva nechokwadi chekutevera kuti uri kushanda sei pakukunda kusasimba uku, kana zvaunoita zuva nezuva kuti uve nechokwadi chekuti kusasimba uku hakumbokukanganisi kupfuura zvakunofanira kuita.
"Kusasimba kwedu kukuru kuri mukurega. Nzira chaiyo yekubudirira ndeyekuedza kamwe chete." - Thomas A. Edison
7 - "Ndeipi dambudziko guru riri kutarisana naro [nyora nzvimbo pano] uye tingarigadzirisa sei?"
Dambudziko guru riri kutarisana neguta renyu, guta renyu, dunhu renyu, kana nyika yese nderei?
Ehe, mhinduro iyi ichachinja zvichienderana nenzvimbo. Matambudziko anosangana nevanhu vekuCalifornia angangosiyana neevanhu vekuGeorgia. Ehe, pane kufanana pakati pedunhu rega rega, asi pakupedzisira, dunhu rega rega rine matambudziko aro.
Kuti upindure mubvunzo uyu zvinobudirira, dzokorora chimwe chinhu chaunofarira. Unoda kuti hurukuro yako ive nemusoro wenyaya kana kuti pfungwa. Pane zvimwe zvinhu zvakanaka kana nyaya yauri kutaura nezvayo iri chinhu chaunotenda kuti chinogadzirisa… pamwe chikonzero chaunofarirawo.
"Nyika haina njodzi nekuda kwevaya vanoita zvakaipa asi nekuda kwevaya vanoitarisa vasina kuita chero chinhu." - Albert Einstein
8 - "Unozviona uri kupi mumakore [isa makore pano]?"
Iyi ibvunzurudzo yebasa here kana kuti makwikwi erunako? Zvakanaka, zvese zviri zviviri. Mubvunzo uyu unoda kuratidza kuti une hanya nepfungwa dzako. Kwete, kwete kuti une mutsa sei, asi kuti wakashandisa pfungwa dzakadii pakuronga ramangwana rako, uye kuti wakashandisa nguva yakawanda sei muhupenyu hwako.
Dambudziko remubvunzo uyu wemakwikwi erunako nderekuti hazvina basa kuti hurongwa hwako hwemakore mashanu kana gumi anotevera ndehwei, asi zvine basa kuti une hurongwa hwemakore mashoma anotevera.
Uri kuda kuti hupenyu hwako hufambe nenzira dzakatarwa here, kana kuti uri kuronga uye kutora matanho ekuona kuti une simba rakaenzana nerekutonga hupenyu hwauri kuzvigadzirira? Varatidze kuti unofunga zvakadii!
"Chinangwa chisina hurongwa ingori chishuwo." - Antoine de Saint-Exupéry
9 - "Chii chaunonyanya kufarira nezvako?"
Mhinduro iyi inofanira kunge iri nyore. Zano redu chete nderekupindura mubvunzo uyu wemakwikwi nekuvimbika uye nechivimbo.
Hazvina kuipa kuzvirumbidza kana uchipindura mubvunzo uyu nekuti mubvunzo wacho uri kutsvaga mhinduro yakadaro. Uyu ndewenyu.
"Ida iwe pachako kutanga, uye zvimwe zvese zvinopinda mugwara. Unofanira kuzvida zvechokwadi kuti uite chero chinhu munyika ino." - Lucille Ball
10 - "Ndeipi zano raungapa iwe uri mudiki?"
Uyu mubvunzo unowanzo bvunzwa nezvemakwikwi erunako nekuti unoratidza vatongi kuti wakakura zvakadii, kuti unozvinzwisisa zvakadii, uye kuti wakadzidza zvakadii kubva muzvikanganiso zvako nematambudziko awakasangana nawo.
Ingava mukana wekutarisa pane chimwe chinhu chakaoma kupfuura, asi wakachikunda zvisinei. Unogona kutotaura kuti haungachinje matambudziko awakasangana nawo nekuti matambudziko iwayo akuita kuti uve zvauri.
Shandisa mubvunzo uyu kuti utsanangure kuti wasvika papi chaizvo.
"Vazhinji vanowana mazano, asi vakachenjera chete ndivo vanowana rubatsiro kubva paari." - Harper Lee
11 - "Kana waigona kusangana nemunhu ane mukurumbira munhoroondo, ndiani uye nei?" / "Ndiani muenzaniso wako?"
Uye pakupedzisira, mubvunzo unowanzo bvunzwa pamusoro pemakwikwi erunako kwemakore akawanda ndewevanhu vaunonamata navo uye vanhu vaunotevedzera.
Mubvunzo uyu unojekesa kuti ndiani waunoyemura, waunoshuvira, uye waunofunga nezvekushandisa pakudzidza. Dai waigona kudya kwemasikati nemunhu ane mukurumbira, (mupenyu kana akafa) waizova ani uye nei?
Mubvunzo uyu inguva yakanaka yekuisa kakusetsa uye hunhu mumhinduro yako. Kana wasarudza munhu wenhoroondo, funga nezvekuisa chimwe chinhu nezvenyika yanhasi chinovavhiringidza. Uyewo, taura nezvekuti ndiani anotora cheki yekudya kwemanheru. Iva nehasha nazvo!
"Handisi muenzaniso wakanaka. Ndiri muvengi akaipa." - Marilyn Monroe
Pasinei nemibvunzo yaunosangana nayo, pindura nekuvimbika! Kuva nechokwadi chekuti mhinduro dzinonzwika sedzakanaka uye dzechisikigo ndicho chinhu chakakosha! Yeuka kuti hauna kukwana, saka usanyepedzera kunge wakakwana. Varatidze kuti unogara uchidzidza uye uchikura! Pasinei nemibvunzo ipi inokandwa kwauri, tinokushuvira rombo rakanaka uye chivimbo.